Brother in law tag along; vacation help.?
I am I wrong to be tense and annoyed by this issue? For the last three years my brother in law and his wife and kids have seemed to tag along on every vacation my husband and I take. Two years ago I wanted to go to Bush Gardens one last time as a couple before we had children, they came. Last year we went to the mountains for a few days, they came. This year it’s my Mom’s 50th Birthday and she wanted us to go with her and my Dad for a few days getaway. My husband just called and said my brother in law and his wife and kids may be coming too. This is driving me crazy. It’s not that I don’t like them it’s just that I would like to see what a vacation without them would be like. Especially since the focus this year is on my Mom and not his family for once. They tag along and then try to make every decision and change our plans. Of course my husband sides with his brother and we end up doing his thing again. How would you approach your spouse about this sensitive issue?
Of course not… it’s very reasonable desire to want to be spend time with people you want to spend time with.
Let your voice be heard. Even arguments is a form of communication.
Nonetheless, pick a good time to bring up the issue. Usually when he’s full and in a reasonably good mood. You need your husband to support you on this.
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